Love Lost: How a Failed Relationship Cost Me $600,000

It’s no secret that relationships can be expensive, especially when they end in heartache. Sadly, for many, the cost of a failed relationship can go beyond emotional strain – it can also have serious financial implications. I was recently reminded of this harsh reality after losing $600,000.00 in a relationship gone wrong. Dating can be an incredible experience, but it can also come with a hefty price tag. In this blog post, I’ll be exploring the costs of love – both emotionally and financially – and sharing my story of how I ended up losing a significant sum of money in a failed relationship.

The Beginnings of the Relationship

It all started with a chance encounter at a coffee shop. We locked eyes over our lattes, and before we knew it, we were exchanging numbers and making plans for a date. Our first date was magical, filled with laughter, great conversation, and an instant connection. Before long, we were inseparable, spending all our free time together and talking about a future together. We moved in together after six months and started building a life together. We were the picture-perfect couple, or so we thought. But as time went on, cracks started to appear in our relationship. We fought over small things, and our arguments became more frequent and intense. The once romantic and exciting relationship turned into a constant source of stress and tension. Looking back now, I can see that our relationship was doomed from the start, but at the time, I was blinded by love.

Signs of Trouble

Looking back, there were plenty of signs that our relationship was in trouble. We had started off dating with all the excitement and passion of a new romance, but over time things began to sour. Our arguments became more frequent and more intense, and I began to feel like I was walking on eggshells around my partner. Despite these warning signs, I held on to the hope that things would get better, that we would make it work. But ultimately, our relationship couldn’t survive the strain, and we ended up going through a painful breakup that would have serious financial consequences.

The Financial Toll

As the relationship continued to unravel, the financial consequences began to pile up. My partner and I had purchased a house together, and with the breakup looming, we had to decide what to do with the property. It was clear that neither of us could afford to buy the other out, and putting it on the market would likely result in a loss. We ultimately decided to sell, but the housing market was not in our favor. We ended up losing $600,000 on the sale of the house, a financial blow that was difficult to recover from. It was a stark reminder that the end of a relationship can have long-lasting and far-reaching consequences.

Making Difficult Decisions

As the relationship continued to deteriorate, it became clear that tough choices had to be made. The question of whether to stay or leave became an all-consuming dilemma. We had invested so much into this partnership, but it was clear that we were no longer on the same page. The possibility of marriage had become a distant dream, and even the thought of dating each other seemed unimaginable. The decision was made to break up, and it wasn’t easy. But in the end, it was the right thing to do, as it paved the way for new beginnings and ultimately a happier future.


In the end, the financial toll of a failed relationship can be devastating. While it may be difficult to make tough decisions regarding property or investments, it is important to prioritize your financial well-being. As much as we may want to believe that love conquers all, the reality is that relationships can have a major impact on our finances. Whether you are married, dating, or going through a breakup or divorce, it is crucial to seek guidance and support from trusted sources like Coach Brad. Don’t let love blind you to the potential financial consequences.