1) Think about the logistics

Logistics are huge in divorce situations. Think about what time of day works best for everyone and try to stick to it. Kids can get really confuse if they have different rules and schedules when they’re with each parent. So you’ll want to minimize confusion by always doing things at a certain time every day.

The same goes for drop-off locations. Try not to change those unless absolutely necessary, trying to remember where they need to be at any give moment.

2) Communicate with each other

Communication is an important part of any relationship, but it becomes even more crucial during a divorce. A big part of handling a split is good communication—with each other and with your kids.

Communication allows you to work through issues instead of letting them fester and explode later on. Meaning your kids can benefit from clear communication now more than ever.

3) Keep it light

In life, we all say and do things we regret. You bound to upset or hurt someone at some point. And when you are going through a divorce—and trying to co-parent with an ex—you are likely to come across situations where your kids will be emotionally affected by your words or actions.

Read more: Creating a Bright Holiday for Your Children During Divorce

4) Think about them first

We are so busy with our own lives, jobs, and kids that we forget about our child’s wellbeing when we do pick them up or drop them off. Taking a few moments to talk to your child can make all of the difference when you have a divorce in your life.

Take 5 minutes before picking up your children from their mother’s house and let them know how much you love them. Make sure they understand that mommy loves them too and how they can help her get through her busy days.

5) Help in any way you can

This can be tough if your ex is uncooperative, but it’s always a good idea to try. Help your children situated in their house, as well as with their new routines and schedules.

Give them all of your contact information and let them know you’re available for anything that might come up. This can help make things run more smoothly for everyone involved.

Conclusion

Be Patient – Being patient is probably one of the toughest things to do when dealing with your ex. The person who hurt you is now back in your life and it’s going to take some time before you are comfortable around each other again. You have to realize that both of you will be experiencing a wide range of emotions. It’s okay to feel a little awkward or angry at times, but don’t allow these feelings to get in the way of creating a positive and loving environment for your children.